Initiative

Reminiscing the past, I've learnt that relationships, habits and cultures form in certain time-frames. There is never a moment that passes without an event or circumstance enabling it. I've learnt to sit back each day and reflect because I know, doing that helps me savour my limited days on earth.

Looking back at the past month since James arrived, I've not only enjoyed the company I've had, I have tasted what its like to take initiative to work on the friendship. Some people have been more difficult to bridge as compared to James but all relationships I've found, it took some initiative - both parties.

I'm proud to say that James and I are enjoying ourselves - yes - bullying and teasing...

I don't like the fact that I can't see him as often as I want because I live so far away but I'm enjoying my household, my work and my relationships too.

btw James, 5 mins of talk after BSF is NOT catch up... hehehe. Thank you for taking care of me when you can. xoxo

P/s: some pics soon! We've been up and about.


Sometimes or often times we realized that until we take initiative, things will happen. I don't know where we would be if I had never taken the initiative to say hi to you again after so many years since our childhood days. Sorry if I had frighten you there but also thanks for coming back the following week to see for yourself if what I told you before was true- that indeed we use to play together and celebrate birthdays together when we were kids. I don't have much memories of it in my head but I certainly do remember some parts of it enough to recognize you when I saw you appeared again after so many years.

Also want to say thank you for being a friend here in Adelaide and also for the advices, company and friendship that you shown around here. Our friendship is not perfect but its a journey worth travelling on. Thanks Mel.

- James